FOR SENIOR WOMEN CALLING IT BURNOUT, LAZINESS, OR JUST A BAD YEAR.

IS IT ME…

OR IS IT THEM?

A three-minute quiz that tells you exactly which pattern is keeping you here, and where it came from.

Before we start

First — where are you at right now?

There’s no wrong answer, and it doesn’t change your result.

Question 1 of 12

How true does this feel to you right now?

Twelve of twelve

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I’ll need your first name.

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Your result

It’s them.

It was always going to be them. You’ve spent fifteen years inside a system that tells you it gets to decide what you’re worth, that you’re ungrateful for wanting more, and rewards you with scraps for not questioning it. That has an impact on what you think you’re allowed to do and to have.

It’s also exhausting, and not in the way that a holiday fixes. The effort of questioning whether you’re fine, and then showing up as though you are, goes on somewhere nobody else can see.

What you’re left with is a set of rules about what you’re allowed to want. You didn’t write a single one of them, and you’ve been following them for years. Here’s the one running you.

It sounds like

    What it feels like

    Where you learned it

    What it’s costing you

    What happens now

    A pattern isn’t a personality and it isn’t a life sentence. It’s a handful of stories and lines and shoulds you’ve been running for years, and they can be taken apart, one at a time.

    That’s what we do in The Discovery. An audio guided workshop to get what you actually want out of your head and onto paper in one evening, so you can see how to make it happen. Without already needing a five-year plan, a leap of faith, or burning down the life you’ve built.

    Get The Discovery for £33

    You won’t be able to unknow it in the morning.

    Lauren Paton · Scout & Circle

    15 years of success and ambition and you can't give a straight answer about what you want from your own future. You've rewritten your CV, you've filled in your annual review form, you've talked it through with the one person you trust with any of it, and you're still in the same place.

    Somewhere in the middle of all of that you started wondering whether the problem is you.

    This quiz is designed to give you clarity on something you might not be seeing, with action steps on what to do next, all in under 3 minutes. When you're done you'll know which of 6 possible patterns you've been repeating, where it started, and what the cost is, so that you can make decisions about your future that will actually move you forward. And importantly, you’ll be reminded that it might not in fact be you…